Who we are:

Homecave is a personal development community hub for people who are dedicated to reaching their desired outcomes. We welcome people from any part of the world and all walks of life.

Here you can find help with:

  • Reaching your personal goals
  • Help for businessmen & entrepreneurs
  • Relationship advice
  • Connecting with your inner self
  • Management and removal of childhood traumas
  • Achieving an overall higher state of happiness

NOTE:  We are a personal development community for people who are willing to put in the hard work and dedication to achieve better mental and emotional health. We don’t heal you, we help you heal yourself.

How we do it:

We created a space for people to share their experience, get guidance from others interested in personal development or our resident Mentors and to feel supported and inspired by the dedicated members who share their issues and stories of success!

We do not depend on any specific technique or method. We welcome resources from all corners of the mental health & psychology industry, meditation, spirituality and all the different types of therapy. 

We also have our own methods which we tested and have proven to yield long-term positive results.

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Homecave mission:


To promote the importance of personal development and emotional health

We’re living in a society that disregards the emotional needs of people. Currently, the focus is on material gain and immediate action. We at Homecave plan to reveal this suppressed aspect and allow it to be expressed and nurtured. 

Our subtle nature is far more important than we give it credit for. It’s about time for the world to acknowledge the emotional side of us that guides our lives.

“It starts with us”

If you’d like to be a part of us, consider joining our Discord!

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Latest stories

Why You Should Be Honest With Yourself


Photo by Joshua Earle This my story on why you should be honest with yourself. A bit of background: Yesterday, I was going through a lot of stress. More than usual and it wasn’t coming from any apparent source. Among other things was the stress of my dad’s birthday. I haven’t spoken to him in 6 months or more. It’s been so long and I have to face him. It was always my plan...

The curse of my perfectionism and procrastination


My perfectionism and procrastination have plagued me my whole life. When I was a child, my parents gave me a new set of pencils. I only sharpened one pencil and used that one pencil until it was all used up. I then systematically went onto the next pencil and the next and so on. This was not an isolated case. Obsessive-compulsive you may say? Hmm… Although I now have far fewer...

The Importance of Our Sacred Personal Space


Photo by Faye Cornish Maybe you want to be left alone while taking a shower without anyone screaming at you from behind the door. Maybe you have a certain ritual around breakfast time or nobody else can make that perfect coffee/meal that you love to have every day. No matter who or where you are in the world you’ve formed sacred places, ritual and objects. what does it mean for something to...

Why is he ignoring me? This is how men really feel


Some context: This is a 95% raw conversation Aria and I had with a member of our community. Nina needed to know “why is he ignoring me?” after a breakup. She had sent him a long text wall explaining her point of view and why an answer is crucial for her well being. James didn’t answer so Aria had the idea of me roleplaying as Nina’s boyfriend to shed light on the situation...

The importance of rest


In I’ve been a slave to stress I realised that I was spinning my wheels in place as I was stressed out of my mind. Only recently did I discover the true importance of rest. I did not solve my stress problem. Last time you heard from me, I realised that I needed to focus on doing what I felt like doing instead of “have to’s“, but the problem is I did not actually put that...

I’ve been a slave to stress.


I’ve been stressing about the success of the Homecave project ever since we started it. Most of the blog posts I have written were from revelations that I had before we launched the server. As of late, I have written far less often as my mind has been consumed by Homecave succeeding. I have a strong feeling that I have lost my sense of self as I have poured everything I am into the server...

I don’t trust myself.


I want to preface this by saying that this is entirely my fault. Let me summarise the events that led up to my realisation that I don’t trust myself. Yesterday as of writing, I had an argument with Aria about the site. I felt like I had no creative freedom as I felt like she was controlling me. Although this was the catalyst, I actually felt like Aria was controlling the entire Homecave...

Coming to Terms with Esoteric Concepts as an agnostic


As an agnostic, there are many esoteric concepts that hail from different philosophies that I have shunned in the past. I have labelled whole belief systems as “stupid” with merely a cursory glance. Only now am I beginning to see value where I was once blind. Over time I have come to terms with the idea that everyone has some wisdom to give, no matter their level of education...

The cause of my self hate


I am dealing with the self hate imposed on me in my childhood: I have written about the various reasons that I could not commit to life. One of them was my self hate. Today I aim to go into detail on that issue. Growing up, I did not get credit for my achievements. My mother always took them for herself. When she would talk about something she and I did together, I SPECIFICALLY note that every...

I am a distraction.


When I am the center of attention I feel like I am a distraction. This is why: Aria quite innocently and nonchalantly told me this morning when I came in to the bedroom while she was meditating “You are distracting me”. She did not mean any harm by it, but to me it seemed cold and dismissive. It hurt me way more than it should, and only after “sitting” with it for 20...